<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/tag/planning/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>Box52 Coaching &amp; Consulting Services - Blog #planning</title><description>Box52 Coaching &amp; Consulting Services - Blog #planning</description><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/tag/planning</link><lastBuildDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2026 12:44:12 -0800</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Achieve Your Aim!]]></title><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/post/achieve-your-aim</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.box52coaching.com/AIM.png"/>Taking your aim or resolution and creating a simple set of "I am" statements to assess if you are making progress.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_UEeHCNDmQkG979Bs39L_1Q" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_eWuStjl8Rdq-vbfqbV_MGg" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"> [data-element-id="elm_eWuStjl8Rdq-vbfqbV_MGg"].zprow{ border-radius:1px; } </style><div data-element-id="elm_8yWgA51ASSqfecVWdSTHwA" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"> [data-element-id="elm_8yWgA51ASSqfecVWdSTHwA"].zpelem-col{ border-radius:1px; } </style><div data-element-id="elm_r1dz9DuORkmI460nViP4hg" data-element-type="heading" class="zpelement zpelem-heading "><style> [data-element-id="elm_r1dz9DuORkmI460nViP4hg"] h2.zpheading{ font-family:'Lato'; font-weight:400; } [data-element-id="elm_r1dz9DuORkmI460nViP4hg"].zpelem-heading { border-radius:1px; } </style><h2
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<div data-element-id="elm_acOCaWMEQzGIRAPSfxC5dQ" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_acOCaWMEQzGIRAPSfxC5dQ"].zpelem-text { font-family:'Lato'; font-weight:400; border-radius:1px; } [data-element-id="elm_acOCaWMEQzGIRAPSfxC5dQ"].zpelem-text :is(h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6){ font-family:'Lato'; font-weight:400; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1;"><div><div style="line-height:1.2;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="font-style:italic;font-size:24px;">Many people assess</span> their life’s aim at the start of each calendar </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_calendars"><span style="font-size:11pt;">year</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. The ritual can be incredibly impactful for people who contemplate, plan and then set into action the behaviors necessary to fulfill their resolution. This can take place seasonally, with the lunar new year, on a birthday, anniversary or any other random day of the week. However, the path of progress is not one, but many, and a person must account for setbacks, obstacles and frustrations, as well as success and accomplishment, throughout the 52 weeks that follow the setting of a “new year’s” aspiration.</span></span></p><h2 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:6pt;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:21.3333px;font-family:Lato;">Self-awareness, Values and Truth</span></h2><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Consider this quote from </span><a href="https://www.womenhistoryblog.com/2012/11/eliza-farnham.html"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Eliza Farnham</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, pioneer, women’s rights champion and advocate.</span></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:20px;"><span style="font-style:italic;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">“</span>&nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-style:italic;">The ultimate aim of the human mind,&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-style:italic;">in all its efforts,&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-style:italic;text-indent:36pt;font-size:20px;">is to become acquainted with truth.”&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:inherit;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">As one builds self-awareness and sets about staying with a personal truth, it does help to establish an aim for life; a grounding purpose that can be used to rebalance and recalibrate when turmoil hits. And, it will always hit. We just don’t know when or how hard the impact will be. Connecting our aim to </span><a href="https://characterlab.org/tips-of-the-week/know-thyself/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">core values or virtues</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> can be a pathway. This does not mean a complex, overly convoluted expression of who we want to be or how we show up in the world. It doesn’t need to be a SMART goal or have a rubric for evaluation or a scorecard to track our stats.&nbsp; As long as it brings you back to the fundamental truth for setting your aim, establishing a meaningful touchstone can be simple.</span></span></p><h2 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:6pt;"><span style="font-size:16pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Lato;">“AIM to I AM” Activity</span></h2><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">AIM</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">, when its letters are swapped and shuffled, becomes</span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;"> I AM</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">.&nbsp;</span></span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">Try this simple activity to turn your AIM into behavior-based action I AM statements.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:16px;">Step 1</span></p><ul><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">Begin with </span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">one minute</span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;"> of focused transitioning to clear some of the mental clutter.&nbsp;</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">Sit comfortably, notice your body’s contact with the seat. Do </span><a href="https://health.clevelandclinic.org/box-breathing-benefits/" style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">box breathing</span></a><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">.&nbsp;</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">When it wanders, gently tell your mind to come back to your activity. Permission granted to think without multitasking!&nbsp;</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">Put some of your attention to this question. </span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">What is your highest aim?&nbsp;</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">Write it down. Record it. Give it a home outside of your head.&nbsp;</span></li></ul><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Step 2</span><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:16px;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></p><ul><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Write 5 positive “I am…” statements about how you can fulfill your aim.</span></li></ul><ul><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Write 2 fear-based “I am…” statements about the obstacles in the way.</span></li></ul><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></p><h2 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:6pt;"><span style="font-family:Lato;"><span style="font-size:20px;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">“AIM to I AM”&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:16pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Activity Example</span></span></h2><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Using Eliza’s aim for the human mind to be acquainted with truth, her I AM statements may have looked something like this:</span></p><h3 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:4pt;"><span style="font-size:18px;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Lato;">Positive Statements</span></h3><ol><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am curious and strive to hear multiple perspectives.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am honest about my short-comings and biases in personal and professional relationships.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am committed to re-thinking long-held beliefs, even if it means I am wrong.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am learning to lead with love even though it is difficult at times.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am a person who perseveres in times of uncertainty.</span></p></li></ol><h3 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:4pt;"><span style="font-size:18px;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Lato;">Fear-based Statements</span></h3><ol><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am uncomfortable in some situations due to fear of judgment from others.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">I am worried that my work as a woman is overshadowed by that of men.</span></p></li></ol><h2 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:6pt;"><span style="font-size:16pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Lato;">Living Your Aim</span></h2><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Now that your aim and “I am” statements are written, decide when you will review them each week, month or season. Decide how to use your touchstone to keep your efforts pure.&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;">Whether we are truth seeking or fulfilling a different aim, aligning our beliefs, thoughts and behaviors leads to accomplishment. Identifying and coming up with ways to get over obstacles increases the likelihood of success. How we respond to the fear-driven, critical inner voice in our head impacts the ultimate sense of fulfillment we experience. Go on your route, at your pace and keep moving forward.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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<div data-element-id="elm_Bluy-Yb-RSawwmjVpzX2MQ" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_Bluy-Yb-RSawwmjVpzX2MQ"].zpelem-text { color:#013A51 ; border-radius:1px; } [data-element-id="elm_Bluy-Yb-RSawwmjVpzX2MQ"].zpelem-text :is(h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6){ color:#013A51 ; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><div style="line-height:1.2;"><p style="line-height:1.5;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="font-size:12px;"><span style="font-size:32px;">If 2020’s</span></span>mayhem and maladies taught solopreneurs anything, it was the value of authenticity and </span><a href="https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths/honesty"><span style="font-size:11pt;">honesty</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. The virtue of courage, where the value of honesty resides, was tested repeatedly. For business owners trying to survive in the a face of a grossly mismanaged pandemic and ongoing racial injustice, there was no hiding from the long list of questions, such as&nbsp;</span></p><ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What are my core values and how do they show in my business?</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Will I need to pivot my services and products?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What do my customers need right now to feel cared about and important?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Do I have the physical and mental energy to do what is needed?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Where can I find reliable guidance and support?</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What do I need to stop doing right now to stay in business?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Who can I trust?&nbsp;</span></li></ul></ul></ul><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">And, yet, </span><a href="https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/single-member-limited-liability-companies"><span style="font-size:11pt;">single-owner LLCs</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> and sole proprietors continued to create experiences that felt right and familiar for customers. They provided moments of normalcy in a tumultuous year. Sometimes it came in the form of artisanal bread produced at the ultra-local level and delivered to your doorstep. Or meditation and movement offered by yoga instructors teaching outdoors or via video to keep their communities connected. Maybe it was personalized fitness and conditioning brought by a masked instructor, helping to reduce anxiety and keeping people fit. Lessons of all types were offered from in-person studios, living rooms and virtual settings—even drumming instruction for children!&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Fellow independent, one-person business owners shared their challenges and coping methods with Box52 Coaching. Here are some key take-aways.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;font-size:26px;">Keep Your Vision Front and Center</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">It is not enough to write a vision statement for a business plan. Believing and sharing that vision of how the world will be better because of your product or service is equally, if not more important. Post it in a prominent place where you work, live, and look (like on your phone!). Refer to your vision often and use it as a touchstone when making difficult decisions.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Find Financial Fortitude</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Being your own boss means doing a deep dive on your values around money. Consider questions like the following:</span></p><ul><ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">How comfortable are you without a predictable paycheck?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What does financial security mean to you?&nbsp;</span></li></ul><ul><li>How will you stop undervaluing your service or product and begin to charge what it is worth?&nbsp;</li></ul><p><br></p></ul></ul></ul><p><span style="color:inherit;">This is NOT an area to avoid or put off. Questions about what you are or aren’t willing to do for a profit are better answered before you are in a financial bind. It takes serious resolve to endure the ups and downs of generating revenue each month. Establishing a separate bank account for your business will prevent many headaches in the future. Find more&nbsp;<a href="https://theminoritymindset.com/8-personal-finance-tips-solopreneurs/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">important tips here</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;to reduce money management worries.&nbsp;</span></span><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Put Your Biz First with Boundaries and Drop the Guilt</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">It is HARD to let go of the feeling that you must work ALL THE TIME when it is you and only you taking care of your business. Build in regular reminders that you are your best self when you are comfortable and relaxed running your business. This means taking breaks and keeping your life multi-dimensional. Create a routine to shape your work day. This strategy is especially critical if you operate out of your living space. Scheduling work hours helps to eliminate the feeling that you should be doing something else, like caring for your home and any other beings who live there. It also helps those around you to know when they can gain your full attention, rather than becoming another interruption. Tackle </span><a href="https://minutes.co/getting-over-guilt-as-an-entrepreneur/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">guilt</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> head on. It wastes your precious energy.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Take Care of Your Body/Mind</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">As a certified health and wellness coach, I can’t emphasize self-care enough. Rest (sleep and other forms) allows vital physical processes to occur in your body. Dr. Matt Walker, a sleep guru with degrees in neuroscience and neurophysiology, shares why soundly snoozing is important. He offers </span><a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/matt_walker_6_tips_for_better_sleep?utm_source=tedcomshare&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_campaign=tedspread"><span style="font-size:11pt;">six tips</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> for getting more and better sleep.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Eating a balanced, nutritious diet provides a quality source of energy to stay focused and to meet your business demands. Keep fruits, veggies, and nuts handy to snack on. Drink water. You can add edible essential oils or slices of fruit to make water taste better without extra sugar or sugar alternatives.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Whether you call it exercise or not, find ways to include more movement in your day. Dance, walk, run, bike, swim, snowshoe, chair yoga, kickbox, spin, or roll. Whatever your body is capable of doing, do it. Just be sure to get it into your daily routine. Your brain will thank you, along with the rest of your body. Need more proof? Check out </span><a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/fitness/in-depth/exercise/art-20048389"><span style="font-size:11pt;">this article</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> about all the benefits.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Stop putting off preventive and routine medical care. Find a new primary care physician and go for an appointment. Schedule with the dentist. See an eye doctor. The upfront time and effort it takes to do these tasks can be frustrating, but it is worth the investment. Being healthy is </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">not a guarantee</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">, and many individuals manage chronic illness while</span><a href="https://solopreneuracademy.com/business-health-problems/"><span style="font-size:11pt;"> leading their business</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. Remember, taking care of yourself is a type of insurance for your business. Suze Orman, whose whole business is money, shares her personal denial and ultimate health consequence </span><a href="https://www.cnbc.com/2020/10/12/the-big-lesson-suze-orman-learned-from-her-recent-health-scare.html"><span style="font-size:11pt;">here</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Seek Out Support</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Even though you made the leap to be on your own, you are not alone. Find other solopreneurs to brainstorm ideas. Connect with local business groups or like-minded social media groups. Sign up for an account with the </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;"><a href="https://www.sba.gov/">Small Business Development Center</a>&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">in your region or state. Talk to family and friends about how they can support you in clear, concrete ways. It can help them to feel purposeful and can get you help when you need it. Stop believing that successful people do things all on their own. It’s a fallacy. And, as we learned at the beginning, being honest with yourself is crucial to making your business thrive.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Hiring a coach is an outstanding way to define your goals, address your fears, and gain clarity about areas that need attention. You get a confidential space to express yourself and support in setting up actions and accountability strategies to meet internal and external expectations for your business.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Thank you to the following solopreneur-led businesses for your contributions:&nbsp;</span><a href="https://mindfulmovingkids.com/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Mindful Moving Kids</span></a>,<span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;</span><a href="https://ironsoultraining.wixsite.com/home"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Iron Soul Training</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> LLC, </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/breadhouse19038/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Cristina’s Bread House</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, Joe Ruzzi Drum Instruction, </span><a href="https://fullcircleyogakc.com/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Full Circle Yoga KC</span></a></p><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;line-height:1.2;"><a href="https://fullcircleyogakc.com/"></a></h3></div>
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</div><div data-element-id="elm_X8BXLnSrQOm4CLdWirX3-w" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_X8BXLnSrQOm4CLdWirX3-w"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1.2;"><p style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:18pt;font-style:italic;">In a year</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> when the bedrock of American living was jack-hammered to bits by the pandemic, politics off the rails, racial injustice and more natural disasters, creating a sense of normalcy seems, at best, daunting and often impossible. However, putting in time now to set a plan can provide a road map for ending this year (Woohoo!) in something other than a fiery dead end crash. And, maybe more importantly, it will position you to start 2021 off in a better place.&nbsp;</span><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Use September to refocus and gain a sense of direction. Build on that momentum, and let it carry you forward.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">First things first.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-style:italic;font-weight:700;">1. There is a Future!</span></p><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">The world is still turning; the sun sets and the moon rises each day.&nbsp; Time may feel warped lately, but a future is out there for you. It is easy to get sucked into the mentality that the “world is ending” and “nothing really matters”. Those beliefs only perpetuate a bleak existence. Push on the accelerator and skip that exit on the highway!! It leads to the land of wasted days and swamp of self-doubt. Take back your sense of control and stay in the driver’s seat. </span><span style="color:rgb(11, 45, 28);">S</span></span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-efficacy" style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">elf-efficacy</span></a><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;"> is key to actualizing the wishes and goals you want to achieve.&nbsp;</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">2. Recognize What You Need</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;Are you feeling fatigued? Stress consuming your energy? Mind racing but not getting things done? Feeling alone? Lacking alone time? Work bursting into every aspect of your life? No work at all? Breaking your needs down into</span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"> physical,</span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">emotional,</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> and </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">mental</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> categories allows you to find the right fix to get you back on the road. You don’t pour windshield wiper fluid into your empty gas tank to fuel up, so don’t do it to yourself! If you are tired and sleepy, find ways to get more and better rest. Acknowledge and share your feelings of anger, anxiety or fear. Capture and release your thoughts by</span><a href="https://www.friday.app/p/best-digital-journal-apps"><span style="font-size:11pt;"> journaling</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> or other mindfulness practice.</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">3. Keep it Simple</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Focus on getting the basics of your plan down on “paper”. Eliminate visual distractions around you so it is easier to be clear and concise as you define your goals, intentions or problems to solve. Use existing resources rather than trying to create everything yourself. For example, this is </span><a href="https://www.ready.gov/september"><span style="font-size:11pt;">National Preparedness Month</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> and you can use this guide to plan for emergencies and disasters. It is okay to follow a map that someone else made. Just remember that it is your journey!&nbsp;</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">4. Identify Your Obstacles</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Often we compare our starting point to other people’s finished product. It is fantastic to find inspiration in others for what you would like to accomplish. Just keep in mind that you are where you are. Don’t let your perception of someone else stop you from starting. Figure out what is getting in your way. Is it something internal or external to you? </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Knowing the difference allows you to create strategies and use tools that specifically address your unique challenges</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">. Like any travel adventure, sometimes you see the road signs, sometimes you miss them and other times they aren’t there at all. Regardless, the response is up to the driver, and that is YOU!</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">5. Tap Your Strengths</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Regardless of where </span><a href="https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths/perseverance"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Industry, Diligence and Perseverance</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> falls on your </span><a href="https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/testcenter"><span style="font-size:11pt;">VIA Survey of Character Strengths</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, draw on them to create and implement your plan. It does take hard work to achieve intentions and goals that really matter. Discomfort and uncertainty will be present. Be careful and persistent as you persevere to find ways under, over and through the obstacles in your way. Navigation tools make a trip infinitely easier, and matching strengths to circumstances allows for a more authentic journey. Grit will get you there, but not on its own.</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">6. Get Help</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">When traveling, and in life, stop and ask for directions and “local” tips. No one gets anywhere alone. </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">No one.</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> Plus, the journey is so much better when you connect with others.&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Asking for help is a strength. </span><span style="font-size:11pt;">Recognizing what is and isn’t available in your current environment is essential to moving beyond your perceived existence. Expand your network. Seek out friends, mentors, coaches and other professionals who will provide the expertise you need to fill in the details on your plan. Allow yourself to be vulnerable.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p></p><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;"><div></div></h3><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;line-height:1;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-weight:800;font-style:italic;">Parting Postcard</span></span><ul><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Think in a courageous way.&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Nourish your feeling of confidence.&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Make action your top priority.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Start now.</span></p></li></ul><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">@box52coaching</span></p><div><div style="line-height:1.2;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></div></div></h3></div></div></div><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;"><div></div></h3></div>
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