<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/tag/organizing/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>Box52 Coaching &amp; Consulting Services - Blog #organizing</title><description>Box52 Coaching &amp; Consulting Services - Blog #organizing</description><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/tag/organizing</link><lastBuildDate>Fri, 08 May 2026 04:45:49 -0700</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[2 Steps to Clear Office Clutter When You Are Exhausted]]></title><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/post/2-steps-to-clear-office-clutter-when-you-are-exhausted</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.box52coaching.com/files/clutter image.png"/>Your health and work satisfaction are at risk if those piles and inboxes stay clogged and ignored. Use two simple steps to deal with stuff in your space and reduce the impact of decision-fatigue.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_gvfCBulLS-iZ8RKOG0CsOQ" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_Yw7GVFKwRMKISdB_2uVqLw" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_A0hi-cLhRDOG6-isJpEExg" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_o8_iqaJAQxi3suqCUrXvGA" data-element-type="heading" class="zpelement zpelem-heading "><style> [data-element-id="elm_o8_iqaJAQxi3suqCUrXvGA"].zpelem-heading { border-radius:1px; } </style><h2
 class="zpheading zpheading-align-center " data-editor="true"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Too Much Stuff: A Symptom of Decision Fatigue and Stress</span></h2></div>
<div data-element-id="elm_77m4e0YPSq6UeMH3CHH6gw" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_77m4e0YPSq6UeMH3CHH6gw"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; margin-block-start:29px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-justify " data-editor="true"><div><div><div><div><div><div><div style="line-height:1.5;"><p><span style="text-align:center;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-size:20px;">Do&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="font-size:20px;">you end each</span> work day exhausted and mentally drained? Wishing a magic wand could wave away unmade decisions with the flick of the wrist?&nbsp;</span></span></p><p style="line-height:1.2;"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">More often it feels like a spell gone wrong - stacks of papers, backlogs of emails and&nbsp; to-do lists growing like bewitched pumpkins.&nbsp;</span></p><h2 style="margin-bottom:6pt;"><span style="font-size:16pt;font-weight:700;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">Impact of Decision Fatigue</span></h2><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">Maybe you are numb to your situation and have zero mental energy to take action on physical and digital clutter in your space. It gets pushed off again and again, while guilt, despair and frustration compound the situation.</span></p><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><br></span></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">According to WebMD, all of the “stuff” in your work environment is likely impacting your </span><a href="https://www.webmd.com/balance/ss/slideshow-clutter-affects-health"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">physical and mental health</span></a><span style="font-size:12pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">, and possibly your work-related well-being.&nbsp;</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><br></span></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Decision- and emotional-fatigue experienced in fast-paced, demanding roles depletes the ability to make seemingly simple decisions. As Dao and Ferrari documented in </span><a href="https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Joseph-Ferrari/publication/344388085_The_Negative_Side_of_Office_Clutter_Impact_on_Work-Related_Well-Being_and_Job_Satisfaction/links/5f6f3d8da6fdcc00863cb5ed/The-Negative-Side-of-Office-Clutter-Impact-on-Work-Related-Well-Being-and-Job-Satisfaction.pdf"><span style="font-size:11pt;">their research</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, “...the presence of [office] clutter positively predicted a person’s level of emotional exhaustion and stress”. Leaving your job may appear to be the only way to resolve your extreme fatigue. But changing positions without any modifications to your behaviors might land you in the same situation, just with a different employer.&nbsp;</span></span></p><h2 style="margin-bottom:6pt;"><span style="font-size:16pt;font-weight:700;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">Clutter-busting Action Steps&nbsp;</span></h2><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Take control of your work environment one area at a time.</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> Make a </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">choice</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> to shed the extra and unnecessary piles of papers, old emails and binders of who-knows-what from the shelves.&nbsp; Yes, it can be overwhelming to declutter. Especially after the pandemic-induced disruptions to the world of work, but that makes it even more critical to steady yourself by assessing what you actually need and purging the rest! </span><a href="https://harrypotter.fandom.com/wiki/List_of_spells#E"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Evanesco!</span></a></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><br></span></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">Here are some tips to simplify the process.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:13pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><br></span></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">&nbsp;<span style="font-size:13pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-style:italic;"><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Step One: Start Small</span></span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><ol><li><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;">Set a </span><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">timer for three to five minutes MAX </span><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;">(or play two of your favorite songs)</span>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">&nbsp; &nbsp;Identify </span><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;">a pile, file drawer or shelf in your work space that needs attention.&nbsp;</span></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">&nbsp; &nbsp; Ruthlessly eliminate<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;"> waste by asking -&nbsp;</span>If I leave my role, will anyone need this item?<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>NOPE<span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;= junk it.&nbsp;</span>YES<span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;= decide who needs it and how to store it.</span></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">&nbsp; &nbsp; BUZZ! Time’s up.<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;text-align:left;">&nbsp;Pat on the back.</span></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">&nbsp; &nbsp; Do this a few times throughout the day, and&nbsp;<span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">practice self-control</span><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">&nbsp;by stopping when the timer goes off or song ends.&nbsp;</span></span></li></ol><p style="margin-left:108pt;"><br></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">&nbsp;<span style="font-size:13pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">Step Two: Capture Straying Thoughts</span></span></p><ol><li><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">Keep a notepad</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> (paper or electronic) and</span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;"> record all those other ideas</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> that come up while you are sorting and selecting what to remove from your space. When that conference badge reminds you of the Broadway show you saw in NYC and your favorite tune, which sparks a memory of the CD pile in your basement collecting dust alongside the bins of holiday decorations that need to come out and the wrapping paper stash in the closet next to the pile of kid shoes that are too small and need to be donated - AHHH!!&nbsp;</span></span></p></li><li><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">STOP! </span><span style="font-size:11pt;">Exit the rabbit hole.</span></span></p></li><li><p><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(10, 15, 20);">Jot down the items, and go back to your current task.&nbsp;</span></p></li></ol><p style="line-height:1;"><span style="color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></span></span></p><p style="line-height:1.5;"><span style="font-size:23px;"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">Ask for Help</span></span></p><p style="line-height:1.5;"><span style="color:rgb(10, 15, 20);"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">If these simple actions seem impossible to implement, you are not alone. Adult ADHD, which is </span><a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/add-symptoms-in-women-20394"><span style="font-size:11pt;">underdiagnosed in women</span></a></span><span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">, anxiety or depression may be contributing factors.&nbsp; Seek support from your supervisor, HR department or outside professionals if your workload is causing extreme emotional and mental fatigue. Or, hire a coach who will support your desire to be productive, he</span>althy and clear-minded in life and at work.&nbsp;</span></span><br></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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</div><div data-element-id="elm_X8BXLnSrQOm4CLdWirX3-w" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_X8BXLnSrQOm4CLdWirX3-w"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1;"><div style="line-height:1.2;"><p style="margin-bottom:3pt;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:18pt;font-style:italic;">In a year</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> when the bedrock of American living was jack-hammered to bits by the pandemic, politics off the rails, racial injustice and more natural disasters, creating a sense of normalcy seems, at best, daunting and often impossible. However, putting in time now to set a plan can provide a road map for ending this year (Woohoo!) in something other than a fiery dead end crash. And, maybe more importantly, it will position you to start 2021 off in a better place.&nbsp;</span><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Use September to refocus and gain a sense of direction. Build on that momentum, and let it carry you forward.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">First things first.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-style:italic;font-weight:700;">1. There is a Future!</span></p><p><span style="font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">The world is still turning; the sun sets and the moon rises each day.&nbsp; Time may feel warped lately, but a future is out there for you. It is easy to get sucked into the mentality that the “world is ending” and “nothing really matters”. Those beliefs only perpetuate a bleak existence. Push on the accelerator and skip that exit on the highway!! It leads to the land of wasted days and swamp of self-doubt. Take back your sense of control and stay in the driver’s seat. </span><span style="color:rgb(11, 45, 28);">S</span></span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-efficacy" style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">elf-efficacy</span></a><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-size:11pt;"> is key to actualizing the wishes and goals you want to achieve.&nbsp;</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">2. Recognize What You Need</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;Are you feeling fatigued? Stress consuming your energy? Mind racing but not getting things done? Feeling alone? Lacking alone time? Work bursting into every aspect of your life? No work at all? Breaking your needs down into</span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"> physical,</span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">emotional,</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> and </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">mental</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> categories allows you to find the right fix to get you back on the road. You don’t pour windshield wiper fluid into your empty gas tank to fuel up, so don’t do it to yourself! If you are tired and sleepy, find ways to get more and better rest. Acknowledge and share your feelings of anger, anxiety or fear. Capture and release your thoughts by</span><a href="https://www.friday.app/p/best-digital-journal-apps"><span style="font-size:11pt;"> journaling</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> or other mindfulness practice.</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">3. Keep it Simple</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Focus on getting the basics of your plan down on “paper”. Eliminate visual distractions around you so it is easier to be clear and concise as you define your goals, intentions or problems to solve. Use existing resources rather than trying to create everything yourself. For example, this is </span><a href="https://www.ready.gov/september"><span style="font-size:11pt;">National Preparedness Month</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> and you can use this guide to plan for emergencies and disasters. It is okay to follow a map that someone else made. Just remember that it is your journey!&nbsp;</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">4. Identify Your Obstacles</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Often we compare our starting point to other people’s finished product. It is fantastic to find inspiration in others for what you would like to accomplish. Just keep in mind that you are where you are. Don’t let your perception of someone else stop you from starting. Figure out what is getting in your way. Is it something internal or external to you? </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Knowing the difference allows you to create strategies and use tools that specifically address your unique challenges</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">. Like any travel adventure, sometimes you see the road signs, sometimes you miss them and other times they aren’t there at all. Regardless, the response is up to the driver, and that is YOU!</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">5. Tap Your Strengths</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Regardless of where </span><a href="https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths/perseverance"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Industry, Diligence and Perseverance</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> falls on your </span><a href="https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/testcenter"><span style="font-size:11pt;">VIA Survey of Character Strengths</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, draw on them to create and implement your plan. It does take hard work to achieve intentions and goals that really matter. Discomfort and uncertainty will be present. Be careful and persistent as you persevere to find ways under, over and through the obstacles in your way. Navigation tools make a trip infinitely easier, and matching strengths to circumstances allows for a more authentic journey. Grit will get you there, but not on its own.</span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:14pt;font-weight:700;font-style:italic;">6. Get Help</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">When traveling, and in life, stop and ask for directions and “local” tips. No one gets anywhere alone. </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">No one.</span><span style="font-size:11pt;"> Plus, the journey is so much better when you connect with others.&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Asking for help is a strength. </span><span style="font-size:11pt;">Recognizing what is and isn’t available in your current environment is essential to moving beyond your perceived existence. Expand your network. Seek out friends, mentors, coaches and other professionals who will provide the expertise you need to fill in the details on your plan. Allow yourself to be vulnerable.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p></p><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;"><div></div></h3><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;line-height:1;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:14pt;font-weight:800;font-style:italic;">Parting Postcard</span></span><ul><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Think in a courageous way.&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Nourish your feeling of confidence.&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Make action your top priority.</span></p></li><li style="font-size:11pt;"><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">Start now.</span></p></li></ul><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;"><br></span><p><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);font-family:Verdana, sans-serif;">@box52coaching</span></p><div><div style="line-height:1.2;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></div></div></h3></div></div></div><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;"><div></div></h3></div>
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<div data-element-id="elm_4D18xI6CTxCdcOTXzWeWug" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_4D18xI6CTxCdcOTXzWeWug"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">“The Pirate”, who is rarely agreeable to any initial request, willingly threw away their toddler tub toys this week. They are going to be seven very soon, and these toys were clearly perceived as “babyish”.&nbsp; Many mothers might experience a sense of sadness; the loss of a period of time that will be missed. Not me. In fact, I am sometimes shocked that I love parenting considering how little interest I had in babies. What did stand out to me was the ease with which “The Pirate” let go of the plastic turtles and toy fishing net. With a simple question, “Which of these toys do you want to keep?”, a clear, concise “None.” came back. “Okay, go put them in the garbage can.” And that is what happened. No discussion, no arguing, persuading or cajoling. It was just done and over in less than a minute.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">That sense of clarity and decisiveness is often missing from our adult world. We hem and haw, imagine all the what-ifs and just-in-case scenarios that cause us to hang on way too long. Maybe we are clinging to objects, people, jobs and roles that fit our life at one stage, and we fail to admit we have outgrown or matured beyond them. It’s hard to let it go - (sorry if the soundtrack just started playing in your head!) Maybe we are afraid of what is coming next. Maybe we don’t believe there is anything better than what was in the past. Maybe we lie to ourselves and still believe those things are fulfilling us. Our lives are happening now, and finding ways to quell the overwhelm, decision-fatigue and chaos around us is key to reducing the distractions that keep us from being present.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">My view is that “organized” is often in the eye of the beholder. Regardless of how it looks, a system and structure are critical, so that we use less energy finding what we need or </span><a href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/323748"><span style="font-size:11pt;">making a choice</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. Knowing what you have, and the ability to access it quickly reduces the amount of time used to locate and use said object. This prevents the inevitable racing heart, frazzled mind and tense muscles when we can’t find what we need. Cortisol levels increase and cause our bodies to go into an agitated state. This is great if you need to run away from a predator, but not so great when you are just trying to find your cell phone or keys for the fourth time today. Giving every possession a “home”, lets us make fewer decisions about where to put it, how and when to use it, and determining if we need to repair or replace it. Simplification of the mundane allows us to create space to tackle the meaningful choices in our lives.</span></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:11pt;color:rgb(11, 28, 45);">In the weeks leading up to the decision to leave my Senior VP role, I started clearing my office of clutter. There were papers, files, binders and lots of odds and ends that I had accumulated over the years. Through this process, I was trying to create a sense of visual order that allowed me to see the best next steps. It was hard to throw out over a decade of work (I kept the most recent years), but the reality was none of it mattered in that moment. It did give me the opportunity to remember people and experiences that came and went over the years. It all made me who I am now, and gave me the strength to recognize I wanted to be more than who I was then. It took awhile longer to really choose a new path, and write my resignation notice, but sorting through all the “stuff” was as figurative as it was literal.&nbsp;</span></p><p></p><div style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><br></span></div><div style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:rgb(11, 28, 45);"><span style="font-size:11pt;">A year later, I am doing a similar process in my house - going room by room, closet by closet and shelf by shelf to find and keep those possessions that bring us comfort, serve a clear purpose and add </span><a href="https://konmari.com/category/interviews/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">joy</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> to our home. It is a process that will take much longer than the 31 days this month holds. We will continue to implement the exercise of keeping only what we need, use and love. There is a lot of </span><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-truisms-wellness/201607/the-powerful-psychology-behind-cleanliness"><span style="font-size:11pt;">competing research</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> about happiness, joy and contentment, as it relates to a person’s </span><a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/how-decluttering-your-space-could-make-you-healthier-and-happier/art-20390064"><span style="font-size:11pt;">organized environment</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. There is more to be done in this area, with broader groups of humans, however, knowing what you like, dislike and love is a critical skill to hone. Eliminating the excess, pointless and extraneous that distracts you from living a life defined by-you for-you is essential. Just get clear about who you are and what you need. If “The Pirate” can do it, we all can too.</span></span></div><p></p></div>
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