<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/tag/honest/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>Box52 Coaching &amp; Consulting Services - Blog #honest</title><description>Box52 Coaching &amp; Consulting Services - Blog #honest</description><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/tag/honest</link><lastBuildDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2026 19:40:10 -0800</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[5 Ways to Stay Authentic as a Solopreneur]]></title><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/post/5-Ways-to-Stay-Authentic-as-a-Solopreneur</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.box52coaching.com/IMG_20200430_170823.jpg"/>Solopreneurs know the value of authenticity and honesty in doing business, and here are five tips from real people who started or kept their business going in the tumultuous environment of 2020.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm__fOIlFarSO-2_fIxSD-Kqw" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_0iLcvjRiTvy7zN0j6g0_mw" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_mjTiOUhlSA6Udi4yZ1kZLA" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_Bbb6SJKMTVWdQGrISFLwFg" data-element-type="heading" class="zpelement zpelem-heading "><style> [data-element-id="elm_Bbb6SJKMTVWdQGrISFLwFg"].zpelem-heading { border-radius:1px; } </style><h2
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<div data-element-id="elm_Bluy-Yb-RSawwmjVpzX2MQ" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_Bluy-Yb-RSawwmjVpzX2MQ"].zpelem-text { color:#013A51 ; border-radius:1px; } [data-element-id="elm_Bluy-Yb-RSawwmjVpzX2MQ"].zpelem-text :is(h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6){ color:#013A51 ; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><div style="line-height:1.2;"><p style="line-height:1.5;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="font-size:11pt;"><span style="font-size:12px;"><span style="font-size:32px;">If 2020’s</span></span>mayhem and maladies taught solopreneurs anything, it was the value of authenticity and </span><a href="https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths/honesty"><span style="font-size:11pt;">honesty</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. The virtue of courage, where the value of honesty resides, was tested repeatedly. For business owners trying to survive in the a face of a grossly mismanaged pandemic and ongoing racial injustice, there was no hiding from the long list of questions, such as&nbsp;</span></p><ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What are my core values and how do they show in my business?</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Will I need to pivot my services and products?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What do my customers need right now to feel cared about and important?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Do I have the physical and mental energy to do what is needed?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Where can I find reliable guidance and support?</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What do I need to stop doing right now to stay in business?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">Who can I trust?&nbsp;</span></li></ul></ul></ul><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">And, yet, </span><a href="https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/single-member-limited-liability-companies"><span style="font-size:11pt;">single-owner LLCs</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> and sole proprietors continued to create experiences that felt right and familiar for customers. They provided moments of normalcy in a tumultuous year. Sometimes it came in the form of artisanal bread produced at the ultra-local level and delivered to your doorstep. Or meditation and movement offered by yoga instructors teaching outdoors or via video to keep their communities connected. Maybe it was personalized fitness and conditioning brought by a masked instructor, helping to reduce anxiety and keeping people fit. Lessons of all types were offered from in-person studios, living rooms and virtual settings—even drumming instruction for children!&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Fellow independent, one-person business owners shared their challenges and coping methods with Box52 Coaching. Here are some key take-aways.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;font-size:26px;">Keep Your Vision Front and Center</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">It is not enough to write a vision statement for a business plan. Believing and sharing that vision of how the world will be better because of your product or service is equally, if not more important. Post it in a prominent place where you work, live, and look (like on your phone!). Refer to your vision often and use it as a touchstone when making difficult decisions.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Find Financial Fortitude</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Being your own boss means doing a deep dive on your values around money. Consider questions like the following:</span></p><ul><ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">How comfortable are you without a predictable paycheck?&nbsp;</span></li><li><span style="font-size:11pt;">What does financial security mean to you?&nbsp;</span></li></ul><ul><li>How will you stop undervaluing your service or product and begin to charge what it is worth?&nbsp;</li></ul><p><br></p></ul></ul></ul><p><span style="color:inherit;">This is NOT an area to avoid or put off. Questions about what you are or aren’t willing to do for a profit are better answered before you are in a financial bind. It takes serious resolve to endure the ups and downs of generating revenue each month. Establishing a separate bank account for your business will prevent many headaches in the future. Find more&nbsp;<a href="https://theminoritymindset.com/8-personal-finance-tips-solopreneurs/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">important tips here</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;to reduce money management worries.&nbsp;</span></span><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Put Your Biz First with Boundaries and Drop the Guilt</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">It is HARD to let go of the feeling that you must work ALL THE TIME when it is you and only you taking care of your business. Build in regular reminders that you are your best self when you are comfortable and relaxed running your business. This means taking breaks and keeping your life multi-dimensional. Create a routine to shape your work day. This strategy is especially critical if you operate out of your living space. Scheduling work hours helps to eliminate the feeling that you should be doing something else, like caring for your home and any other beings who live there. It also helps those around you to know when they can gain your full attention, rather than becoming another interruption. Tackle </span><a href="https://minutes.co/getting-over-guilt-as-an-entrepreneur/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">guilt</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> head on. It wastes your precious energy.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Take Care of Your Body/Mind</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">As a certified health and wellness coach, I can’t emphasize self-care enough. Rest (sleep and other forms) allows vital physical processes to occur in your body. Dr. Matt Walker, a sleep guru with degrees in neuroscience and neurophysiology, shares why soundly snoozing is important. He offers </span><a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/matt_walker_6_tips_for_better_sleep?utm_source=tedcomshare&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_campaign=tedspread"><span style="font-size:11pt;">six tips</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> for getting more and better sleep.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Eating a balanced, nutritious diet provides a quality source of energy to stay focused and to meet your business demands. Keep fruits, veggies, and nuts handy to snack on. Drink water. You can add edible essential oils or slices of fruit to make water taste better without extra sugar or sugar alternatives.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Whether you call it exercise or not, find ways to include more movement in your day. Dance, walk, run, bike, swim, snowshoe, chair yoga, kickbox, spin, or roll. Whatever your body is capable of doing, do it. Just be sure to get it into your daily routine. Your brain will thank you, along with the rest of your body. Need more proof? Check out </span><a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/fitness/in-depth/exercise/art-20048389"><span style="font-size:11pt;">this article</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> about all the benefits.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Stop putting off preventive and routine medical care. Find a new primary care physician and go for an appointment. Schedule with the dentist. See an eye doctor. The upfront time and effort it takes to do these tasks can be frustrating, but it is worth the investment. Being healthy is </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;">not a guarantee</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">, and many individuals manage chronic illness while</span><a href="https://solopreneuracademy.com/business-health-problems/"><span style="font-size:11pt;"> leading their business</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. Remember, taking care of yourself is a type of insurance for your business. Suze Orman, whose whole business is money, shares her personal denial and ultimate health consequence </span><a href="https://www.cnbc.com/2020/10/12/the-big-lesson-suze-orman-learned-from-her-recent-health-scare.html"><span style="font-size:11pt;">here</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:26px;">Seek Out Support</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Even though you made the leap to be on your own, you are not alone. Find other solopreneurs to brainstorm ideas. Connect with local business groups or like-minded social media groups. Sign up for an account with the </span><span style="font-size:11pt;font-weight:700;"><a href="https://www.sba.gov/">Small Business Development Center</a>&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:11pt;">in your region or state. Talk to family and friends about how they can support you in clear, concrete ways. It can help them to feel purposeful and can get you help when you need it. Stop believing that successful people do things all on their own. It’s a fallacy. And, as we learned at the beginning, being honest with yourself is crucial to making your business thrive.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;">Hiring a coach is an outstanding way to define your goals, address your fears, and gain clarity about areas that need attention. You get a confidential space to express yourself and support in setting up actions and accountability strategies to meet internal and external expectations for your business.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:11pt;font-style:italic;">Thank you to the following solopreneur-led businesses for your contributions:&nbsp;</span><a href="https://mindfulmovingkids.com/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Mindful Moving Kids</span></a>,<span style="font-size:11pt;">&nbsp;</span><a href="https://ironsoultraining.wixsite.com/home"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Iron Soul Training</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> LLC, </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/breadhouse19038/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Cristina’s Bread House</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, Joe Ruzzi Drum Instruction, </span><a href="https://fullcircleyogakc.com/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Full Circle Yoga KC</span></a></p><h3 style="margin-bottom:4pt;line-height:1.2;"><a href="https://fullcircleyogakc.com/"></a></h3></div>
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</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2021 15:09:53 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Broken Angels. ]]></title><link>https://www.box52coaching.com/blogs/post/Broken-Angels.</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.box52coaching.com/IMG_20200107_105507.jpg"/>Last December was full of unexpected occurrences. This was the month I began to realize that I needed to leave my Senior VP position, give up a six fi ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm__4wkbgeOTY6QLQtoLxWGjg" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_WoQrZj55T9SJKfXqDaRptA" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_8XGfB0yQSdWzhoiebGK_1Q" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_K2zy5Z0VTieLEI5Etih64A" data-element-type="heading" class="zpelement zpelem-heading "><style> [data-element-id="elm_K2zy5Z0VTieLEI5Etih64A"].zpelem-heading { border-radius:1px; } </style><h2
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<div data-element-id="elm_-QVCEEuxRHe3qSVX0-ndWg" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_-QVCEEuxRHe3qSVX0-ndWg"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-indent:36pt;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Last December was full of unexpected occurrences. This was the month I began to realize that I needed to leave my Senior VP position, give up a six figure salary and move on from the agency where I had invested my heart and soul for the last 13 years. A terrifying realization! On Christmas Eve (technically my vacation time), with depleted patience, I found myself enraged by the action of someone in my workplace. That heated response took over my evening with my family, and spilled into them like bright red cranberry sauce on a pristine white table cloth.&nbsp; My youngest daughter, we’ll call her “The Pirate”, is an emotional sponge and mirror. She soaks up the energy we put out, and reflects back exactly what she is receiving, tenfold. She feels everything in a BIG way. This is great when everyone in the family is doing well, and like a burnt Christmas dinner when we are not. Not only does everyone end up hungry and disappointed, there is a giant mess left to clean up. As a result of my work obsession and negative response, my daughter felt ignored and isolated. And I ended up with yet another mess to clean up.</span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"><span><br></span></span></p><p style="text-indent:36pt;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">While I was fuming about the work situation, “The Pirate’s” anger grew. She took vintage angels given to me from my grandmother’s Christmas decoration collection, and snapped their delicate wings, arms and instruments. I did not see her doing this, but later found the broken angels tucked under the end of our couch. When I found them, I remembered “The Pirate” had been stewing in the cozy reading nook near the bookshelves where the angels were perched. At first, I thought they were just knocked down and needed to be put back on the shelves. As I picked them up, I realized each one was damaged in some way. Rage, hurt and shame all flooded in, and all I wanted to do was hide what had happened. I did not want to admit that “The Pirate” had done something so intentionally destructive; that she had reasons to feel so deeply hurt that she wanted to inflict pain on me in the only way she could think of; that I did not want my father to know these family heirlooms were busted because of my child’s emotional response. I would love to say that I faced all of those feelings head on, but that’s not what happened.</span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"><span><br></span></span></p><p style="text-indent:36pt;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">I put those broken angels in the pocket of my sweater and hid them before anyone realized I found them. I put them down in a crumpled pile at the back of my dresser, and they stayed there, broken and neglected for the past 12 months. They collected dust. They were ignored. They were overlooked and became a part of the backdrop. Just this week I committed to clearing my home of unwanted, unused and broken items. (Thank you </span><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/books/happier-at-home/about-the-book/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Gretchin Rubin - “Happier At Home…</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">”) The first room on the list - our bedroom. First on the bedroom list - my dresser. After making my way through receipts, wallets, many small essential oil bottles and other odds &amp; ends like six safety pins, two gift cards, perfume bottles, two piles of tangled necklaces, five baby teeth hidden under some smiley face buttons by the “tooth fairy”, I arrived at the angels. Huh. Did I still want them? Was it easier to throw them away than try to make the repairs? Will I use them? Yes. To all.</span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"><span><br></span></span></p><p style="text-indent:36pt;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Broken angels symbolize many things. For me though, they represent something different. We are all creative, resourceful and whole, and build on our </span><a href="https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">character strengths</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. These broken angels are a symbol of </span><a href="https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">honesty, authenticity and genuineness</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">. It is hard to see ourselves, our environment and our world in a eyes-and-ears-wide-open way. We have to admit hiding </span><a href="https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/05/19/madeleine-albright-scripps-commencement-address/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">the truth</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;">, not just from others, but from ourselves, as a way to cope and find comfort when the ugly, hurtful, mean-spirited things happen in us, to us and around us. The </span><a href="https://characterlab.org/playbooks/honesty/"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Character Lab</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> explains honesty as “telling, and not hiding, the truth”, and the importance of how we model it for our children. “The Pirate” is not the only kid out there watching the incongruence in their parent’s behavior. I was acting inconsistently “</span><a href="https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths/honesty"><span style="font-size:11pt;">across the domains of my</span></a><span style="font-size:11pt;"> life”; being a different person at work and at home. I was unable to be my authentic self at work, which caused my diminished emotional capacity to be present and caring in my home.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-indent:36pt;"><span style="font-size:11pt;">Fortunately, all four of the strengths categorized in the virtue of courage are in my top 10 VIA Character Strengths. It took six months to bring truth to my work life, and another six months to heal enough to share it. I am on a journey to listen more and react less. I am committed to repairing each of the neglected, broken, dusty angels with glue, patience, love and some help from “The Pirate”. They won’t be quite the same, but I’ll cherish them even more when we put them out for Christmas in the coming year, and can say to my Dad and “The Pirate”, “Do you remember when…?”.</span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"></span></p><div><span style="font-size:11pt;"><br></span></div></div>
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